Hey! It's me!

So since High School, some 40+ years ago, I have thought about being a writer. Since then, the thought has come and gone, mostly gone. In High School, I wrote poems. My English teachers and of all people my coach (he was not an ordinary coach) encouraged the writing and would read everything I wrote and was full of encouragement and support... I am sure the poems stunk, but I did not know that at the time. But, once I left High School, the writing stopped. I was an English major for a time, because of my love of reading and I was lucky enough to have great English teachers in High School to facilitate that love. But it was hard, and it stopped... I dropped out (actually to be honest, I failed out of college) and although the reading continued for a while, it stopped.

Life has had it's ups and downs, just like anyone's. I thought I was special. Not that way! I thought my lot was worst than everyone else's, how arrogant.

Not really the point for today. I am soon to be 60 years old, and the idea of writing has pulled at my shirt tail again. And then I have come across Jordan Peterson and his thoughts and encouragement to write. So I am going to start.

Where?

Well here.

With what?

JP's Writing Guide...

I have seen it before, and I was watching a short video with him and a guest talking about the importance of writing, so I did what you do in 2022 - I search online: " jordan peterson how to learn to write".

A quick aside, I did not google it, google is evil and although I use some of their products I am working (slowly) on getting off of the google products, so for search I use https://presearch.com/ .

I came across an essay (appropriate), some videos, and his word doc on writing an essay. For ease, click here for the doc.

The idea came to me, thus this long drawn out introduction, to actually work through the document to begin my writing efforts. The goal is really two fold (actually 3): 1, Learn to write well. 2, To be able to help teach my kids the importance of writing well, as well as how to write well. 3, To document the process that I am taking to help me keep on track.

So, this is a long way in to begin, but I will anyway with some of my highlights from the essay... not sure how far I will get, but I am sure this will be a multi post process. I know you are thinking , Yea! lol! Most of the beginning will be me just cutting and pasting important parts of Mr. Peterson's doc.

An essay is a relatively short piece of writing on a particular topic. However, the word essay also means attempt or try. An essay is, therefore, a short piece written by someone attempting to explore a topic or answer a question.

... if you want to have a life characterized by competence, productivity, security, originality and engagement ..., you need to think carefully about important issues. There is no better way to do so than to write. This is because writing extends your memory, facilitates editing and clarifies your thinking.

... the person who can formulate and communicate the best argument almost always wins.

If you learn to write and to edit, you will also be able to tell the difference between good ideas, intelligently presented, and bad ideas put forth by murky and unskilled thinkers.... Then you can be properly influenced by profound and solid ideas instead of falling prey to foolish fads and whims and ideologies, which can range in their danger from trivial to mortal.

... it is useful to note that your mind is organized verbally, at the highest and most abstract levels.... This also means that you will be healthier, mentally and physically,...

Don’t ever underestimate the power of words.

I will stop this here with some of JP's why's. Compelling for me. This is going to take some work.

In the moments of the most intense friction, tell yourself this is very painful and it will evoke an increase in dopamine release later. But you also have to tell yourself that in that moment you are doing it by choice and you're doing it because you love it, you want it to feel better you want it to feel even pleasurable. - Loosely from the video.

The title of the video is click batey, but the video itself is great.

It is Andrew Huberman talking about how to use dopamine in a deliberate way.

So this is where I am going to "re-start" my efforts at improving my life.

Part of that effort will be this journal of my journey, an effort to not only improve my life, but to show my experience along the way. This can be an anchor as well to come back to when I get distracted.

Were I will dump my memes that I think are worth posting, but don't want to "clog" the feed with individual posts.